Ladies who was the person that made the rule and said you can’t ask a guy out?
That’s how you will be claiming ‘team let him come and ask me out” until you see his invitation card and the lady will come to you and ask you to be part of the bridesmaids.
In case you don’t know, there are guys who are shy and are afraid of being rejected by a lady also. Approach him and ask him out, the highest he can say is a “NO’
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